How To Transmute Your Sexual Energy | Sexual Transmutation

I am pretty sure we are all familiar with Napoleon Hill’s book Think Grow Rich. One of my all time favorites, the read is considered not only the bread and butter of the personal development, but also foundation of its whole industry. Inspiration for not one of the biggest names in the fields of modern day lifestyle coaching and mentoring, it teaches us how to improve every aspect of our lives and personalities.

Of course the book is not one of those you simply read or listen to and then move on. It’s something like a text book and is written to be studied. In fact it’s a lot more, because it provides us with a blue print of how to reach success and prosperity in everything we do. Regardless of that there is one specific part that seems a bit more complicated. The part can trigger some sense of confusion even if you follow N. Hill’s recommendations and carefully study the book.

Described by the multimillionaire, inventor and skateboard icon Rob Dyrdek as “sketchy thing” it seems like, this chapter purposely doesn’t provide us with particular instructions on how to exactly proceed.

By searching on the web, you’ll find that there is a lot of content dedicated to the subject. Many people share their interpretations and understanding, but not big percentage of them touch on the detail I do in the paragraphs bellow. By any means I don’t think, they got it wrong or something. I simply believe there are different approaches you can take in order to achieve the actual thing.

In this article I am giving you my perspective. I am not saying is the only way. I’m simply suggesting you to see things from the stand point I am about to present you. Who knows you may find this approach work for you as well. If so then you use it. If it doesn’t then don’t. You can also call it total bro science. With that being said lets get to the subject by firstly covering what the term “transmutation” actually means.

Transmutation changes something into something else. To transmute something means to change or transform it into something completely different, but most importantly better. You can see it as turning something into a new and totally better version of its own.

Sexual energy is the one that makes women and men being attracted to each other. For humans the process of sexual transmutation begins when the person realizes and starts to understand the unlimited potential of that force. In that moment he or she begins to make wiser decisions when it comes to having intimate contacts. Those decisions allow the individuals to not waste their sex energy.

That may include periods of celibacy and of course not ejaculating for males. From the very beginning I want to make clear that doesn’t mean watching porn and/or masturbating. Sexual transmutation is something which has nothing to do with any form physical action. It’s extremely potent and creative energy and it goes far beyond the limits of any physical contact. Accordingly to N. Hill sex is the most powerful stimuli. Nothing can get even close to the strong want for sex. Nothing besides few things: Those are desire for money, fame, success and power.

• “Sex energy is the creative energy of all geniuses. There never has been and never will be a great leader, builder or artist lacking in the driving force of sex.” – Napoleon Hill

But how to exactly transform that energy into actual prosperity and success? Isn’t that desire too strong to be controlled? Isn’t the simple decision of substituting one with the other going to work, when your hormones don’t agree?

Well, I can ensure you that those are all wrong questions and what I am explaining you has a lot to do with tricking your mind into a specific manner. You can also call it hacking your mind, because that’s what it is, but in order to do so you have to constantly as yourself the right questions.
So here it is: How to actually replace the want for physical expression and intimate contacts with a burning desire of expressing yourself other ways? The desire for sex is essential part of human nature and one should not make any attempts to suppress it. Here’s what I would like to suggest you trying. If you are new to this you can use this method as a starting point.

Find an object of your attraction or simply have a crush on someone. Or even better: be amazed of that person’s whole appearance. Yes, I know that was probably already obvious to you, so here’s the second part: Imagine that the results of your work will not just impress, but actually dazzle the object of your attraction. Also imagine that whatever you do, for example your business, work, craft or art will highly attract that person.

If you menage to successfully trick your mind that way, you’ll find you have access to almost unlimited amounts of inspiration. You’ll feel like you’ve mastered an incredible driving force most of the people sleep on. I believe for many that is what gives start to the whole reaction and puts all of the other elements in order. Same one creates the sparkle in people’s eyes as N. Hill’s describes.

• “The starting point of all achievement is desire. Keep this constantly in mind. Weak desire brings weak results, just as small fire makes small a amount of heat” – Napoleon Hill.

Do you know what removes that sparkle? Two things for sure. One is the over indulgence in habit of sex and the second is inefficient coupling.

So, what you have to do?

Don’t be a square and use that sparkle to achieve the things that you want. The more massive your crush is, the better. The less you know about them also the better. Why is that ? Because you want to keep the perfect idea, you have in your head, as long as possible. The longer you keep it, the longer you’ll be able to take advantage of those powerful emotions and feelings. In other words you’ll strategically utilize them to put it in work, so they will help you reach peak levels of performance at what you do.

The most common mistake people do is trying to attract their crushes by using their game skills and etc. Leave that to the blind folks that will never realize the potential of the mighty force I am talking about. For them that will be one of the secrets they’ll probably never figure out. Use your sexual energy for higher purposes. Like getting on the top of your game, building the life that you want or simply becoming exceptionally good at that one thing you always wanted to do.

Doesn’t really matter if you want to start a business, master a skill, learn an instrument or simply do an epic body transformation. Transmuting the sexual energy can give you the ability to not even think about the amounts of work and effort, attaining of a specific goal requires. Use it to create what you want in your life. The idea that the end results of your work will dramatically impress the object of your attraction, will help you go through all of the required steps of the process with ease. Who knows if you become really good at what you do, very soon they might come to you on their own.

Do not look on them as a potential intimate partner, they are way more special. If their not, then that isn’t the right person, so pick another one or actually allow him or her to come. Be patient and don’t force things up. Do not downgrade those emotions to the borders of the physical expression, that will ruin everything. Instead see them as a sweet memory of something you really enjoyed. Perhaps a lucid or vivid dream or even something greater that happened to you. Something that is on the edge between reality and the most beautiful fairy tales you know. Or your favorite games or books.

• Imagination or as N. Hill describes it “the workshop of the mind’’ is the 5th step towards riches. I would say: Use it to enhance your emotions and never underestimate its properties.

Whoever he or she is that doesn’t matter. Trying to get in a relationship with them may elevate you for a while, but in long term it will suck up your whole energy and bury your inspiration. Ideal recipe for poor satisfaction, less happiness and irritability of kicking ass. The more you find out about that person the more likely you’ll get disappointed, because in the real world they will probably not meet even half of your expectations. No, I do not want to discourage you, I’m simply trying to open your eyes for something most of the people sleep on.

Make sure to see that person once in a while. Give your mind the freedom to fantasize during the periods of not seeing them. I don’t mean to masturbate. In fact I do not mean to even touch yourself or being turned on whatsoever. It’s not even close to that and has nothing to do with any form of physical intimacy or pleasure. It’s the totally opposite: It is all about replacing the desire for physical expression, with ambition to be the best at what you do.

Everything must happen in your mind, so do not visualize any form of sexual contact instead imagine how strongly the person of your attraction admires your work. Visualize how they are even surprised to imagine you’re are capable of executing with all of that work with such excellence and grace.

You can develop an illusion that person is even better and more attractive than they actually are. The longer you keep that almost unrealistic vision in your head, the longer the excitement will stay.

If you think what I am saying is nothing but woo woo stuff, I would suggest you to remember that most of the greatest minds ever lived had extraordinary and unrealistic visions. In order to maintain those visions and eventually turn them to reality, they had to draw inspiration from unreal things or characters. They knew how to use their imagination properly and you have to do exactly the same. Couple that with some hard work and you’ll make progress like never before.

• “Sex desire is the most powerful of human desires. When driven by this desire, men develop keenness of imagination, courage, will-power, persistence and creative ability unknown to them at other times. “N. Hill

The idea of impressing that partly imaginary or 100% real person can give you an extra push when going after your dreams. Will make you figure out or reverse engineer that complicated, difficult thing you struggled with for weeks or even months. If your goal is building muscle or getting in shape, it can make you lift weights. It will make you pull up an all nighter whenever your work demands it. But most importantly it can make celibacy effortless if your struggle to maintain it.

Do non’t use your imagination only for the object of your attraction. Make your projects as epic as they can be. In order to do so simply do not forget to visualize how the results of your work will dazzle your crush. Also don’t get too caught up in your fantasies and certainly don’t expect taking over the world or making any progress just by having less sex. PUT IN WORK.

Sexual transmutation can give you the ability of putting more effort and working harder, but won’t do the hard work for you. So, please don’t have misconceptions about it.

CYCLICAL CELIBACY
Celibacy is an atomic bomb when it comes to productivity, but should you celibate forever. Should you entirely give up the physical sex in order to make more and more progress?

Well, it kind of depends on how bad you want to succeed. In today’s ere we live in a society that glorifies lifestyle which promotes wasting your sexual energy. 24/7 We are bombarded with all kinds of media that brainwashes us with porn and rap videos. From personal experience I can tell you that giving up sex addiction can be more difficult than you can even imagine. So having the right arsenal of questions once again plays huge role.

I suggest you asking yourself: What is more important to you? Accomplishing your goals and becoming the man or woman you want to be or having temporary pleasure? How bad you want to turn dream into reality?

For me reducing the times I have sex drastically increases:
My willpower, aggressiveness and ability to stay focused and. I get more driven and determined to go not one, but few extra miles in order to achieve your goal. Kind of what people want get from the nootropics but a lot stronger and way more effective and there are no side effects. Aw, and you don’t need prescription for it (Bonus). Aw and it’s free (2nd Bonus)

Celibacy can give you more free time to chase your dreams. No, those do not apply only for males. Preoccupying their minds with to much sexual activity or thoughts for sex sucks the energy and ambition from females the same way it does from males.

It will also give you more free space in your head. Yes, I am talking about the exact same mental space the author of the best selling book: Getting things done David Allen talks about. That will help have a lot clear perspective on everything.

Now you’re most likely asking your self the biggest questions that is: Should you give up sex entirely?

No, I most definitely not? I believe you have to experience life completely, so you have take very methodical approach in order to have the balance and harmony that will allow get the best of both worlds. What I would like to recommend you is something I like to call controlled or cyclical celibacy. Yeah, kind of similar to cyclical ketosis, but with sex and celibacy.

Cyclical or seasonal celibacy is not something new and it has been used in many ancient teachings for centuries. Perfect examples for that are the tantric and daoist practices also the chinese medicine. It boils down to cycling periods dedicated to kicking ass and prospering and others dedicated to pleasure and enjoyment. How you’re going to schedule it depend on you and your answers of the questions I mentioned. You have the freedom to create your own seasons or cycles in order to get everything you want.

The first thing you should do after learning how to channel the desire for sexual expression is practicing it for a while. Start feeling comfortable and secure doing it. That usually happens after attaining one or few of your important goals by following the principle. At this point you are completely aware of its power and your potential, because you already saw or experienced the results of your work.

If you menage to successfully trick your mind and you start channeling you sexual energy few things are going to happen. You’ll become more driven, inspired and you’ll start seeing hidden details and possibilities in all of the things you do. The more you do, the more you’ll start valuing yourself. Ultimately that will make you more self aware and help you develop a very strong relationship with yourself. You’ll start feeling really good and optimistic about you’re self and your life, so you’ll make taking care of yourself priority.

The levels your happiness and satisfaction will sky rocket and you’ll notice you’ve been capable to do a lot more. You’ll also begin to feel like you want to do more. Yes, that includes those things some people told you you’ll never going to be able to do. You’ll have that channeled burning desire thing going. Deep inside you, you’ll find that you had talents and abilities you weren’t aware of so you have a lot more to offer to the others and to yourself.

Sexual transmutation will keep you more interested not only in everything you do, but most importantly in yourself. It will make you begin liking yourself a lot more and jump out of the bed every morning simply, because you feel good and you’re excited about the life in general.

Eventually after a while that will shift the focus of your attention. So, it will no longer, be that much about dazzling that partly imaginary person or muse I told you about, but a lot more about impressing one person and one person only. That would be YOU. When that happens you will begin to feel complete. Like you become a complete being or version of yourself. No, that won’t diminish your desire of experiencing sex in it’s physical form, but will make you feel a lot more self sufficient.

As a side effects you might start looking younger and drastically up the standards you have for intimate partners. So the wiser decisions we talked about will become essential part of your life.

In the beginning of my fitness journey I had a massive crush on one lady. When I saw her for the first time, she didn’t even noticed me. Back then I wasn’t looking nowhere near as good as I look now. For me that partly explained why she did not even noticed me and for quite a while I kept her in my head. Later in our lives we met once again. That time things were different. I was different and I looked differently. The first time she actually noticed me she immediately came, sat beside me and introduced herself to me. My Iphone (3GS) was on the table she decided to play with it. She also gave me few comments about the specific way of my hand writing.

Then she told me where lived back then and she even considered that it was very important to let me know that there was a hotel near where she lived. After few sentences she also mentioned that it would be a great idea if we go and check one of the rooms in that hotel, but I kindly denied. Just to find out what’s in there. You know…

I was around 22 years old and I had no idea about “Think Grow Rich” nor the practices I mentioned but subconsciously I was aware how powerful those emotions were, so I decided to take full advantage of them by working on my self. I made some serious progress in many different areas of my life. Surprisingly the life met us several more times and pretty much she acted in the same exact manner. Carefully observing me and staring at me, she asked if I remembered her from the previous times. I was rocking stringers all of the times and I already had the gains going.

Quite frankly I was still heavily attracted to her, but I was already on my path of personal development and self actualization, so enjoying some action here and there were no longer part of the plan. Besides that my subconscious mind was also telling me that getting with her would turn into a very bad example of inefficient coupling and soon I would regret.

For a while that lady did her brilliant job inspiring me to entirely rearrange my physique, become exceptionally good with my turntable skills and get into music production. In the process of making progress with all of those things, She also helped me lose interest in other chicks including the 3 year intimate partner I had. That relationship ended around 2 weeks after I saw her for the first time.
So she saved me a lot of time.
However when I started writing and doing videos for youtube I noticed the magic trigger by her almost faded away. I was no longer able to draw energy and inspiration when having thoughts about her partly imaginary character. I mean the idea of dazzling that exact person with those specific types of work never made any sense in my head.

As the time passed by, the want of having any physical contact with her did not faded away, but progressed in something else. I guess we can tell it took different form. Truth to be told I was barely interested in even touching her, but the desire of seeing her impressed of my physique and the things I was doing in terms of music and scratching, was incomparable to anything.

Later I started wanting to make others and not only her experience same emotions such as those I did after I saw her for the first time. Like creating same impact on others. Ultimately that progressed in the desire of impressing one person and one person only. Me. I like to call it: The art of impressing myself. The emotions and feelings were there but I kind of replaced the object of my attraction with another one: ME

I started to crave that glorious feel, so started looking on everything from that perspective. How to be the hero of my movie? How to dazzle myself? And most importantly: How to turn another dream of the kid I was into reality?

I do not believe impressing others can last forever. Dazzling yourself on the other hand is as eternal.
That is the one person that will surely be with you forever.

I don’t believe you should use this method forever.Even thought nowadays I do not rely only on it, I see it as great starting point. Something like missing link between the N. Hill recommendations and the real life practice. By using it you can easily teach yourself how to channel your sexual energy and give up your sex addiction. All you need is object of attraction and boat load of dreams and goals.

Once mastering it you’ll probably no longer even need an external object of attraction in order to keep the sparkle in your eyes. You’ll want to impress yourself and the more you do it the more attracted to you you’ll become. You can also completely ignore everything I said.

Whatever you decide make sure is the wiser decision.

I hope that makes sense.
Yours Truly:

Peteonthebeat